Confidential · Compassionate · Direct
Some conversations are too hard, too risky, or too loaded to have yourself. The Proxy has them for you — with care, precision, and discretion.
What This Is
The Proxy is a private communication service for people who need a difficult message delivered — but can't or won't deliver it themselves. Whether the stakes feel too high, the relationship too complicated, or the words too far out of reach, this service steps in on your behalf.
Every engagement is handled with strict discretion. Your identity is protected by default. What gets said is shaped entirely by what you need — nothing more, nothing less.
This is not therapy. This is not mediation. This is action.
What's Offered
A carefully crafted letter, email, or message delivered on your behalf. Tone calibrated to your situation — firm, gentle, or somewhere in between.
A live conversation with the other party — conducted by The Proxy. You are not on the call. The message is delivered in real time, with room for response.
For situations that require a physical presence. Available in the Northern Virginia / DC Metro area. Travel considered for the right circumstance.
All services are available at Delivery Only or Full Service tiers. Full Service includes intake consultation, message development, and follow-up support. Rush and complex/high-stakes add-ons available. If pricing is a concern, you're welcome to mention it in your intake.
"Some things go unsaid not because they don't matter — but because saying them costs more than most people can afford to pay alone."— The Proxy
The Process
Fill out a confidential intake form describing the situation, who it involves, what needs to be said, and the outcome you're hoping for.
You'll receive a service agreement outlining exactly what will be done. Nothing moves forward without your sign-off.
The message is delivered in the format you chose. You receive a summary of what was said and, where applicable, how it was received.
The conversation is done. Full Service clients have access to follow-up support. Your anonymity remains intact throughout.
Ready?
Submit your intake and let The Proxy carry it from here.
Begin Your Intake